Kiwi company employs aroha to tailor leadership within business

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By Shannon Williams , published in Tech Day

https://bizedge.co.nz/story/Kiwi-company-employs-aroha-to-tailor-leadership-within-business/

 In today’s ever-changing, ever-transforming business landscape, having strong leadership anchoring an organisation has never been more important.

These days, business leaders face the arduous task of navigating through a sea of change, with culture, technology and societal shifts all playing a role in how businesses succeed and fail.

Business leaders play a crucial role in defining a company’s culture, and it is vital the employees are engaged in the business. Part of this is ensuring staff look up to their leaders.

But how can a business ensure they have the right kind of leadership in place to achieve an effective, happy workforce? How can business leaders develop their own skills, to make sure they have the right tools and resources under their belts to achieve the objectives of their business?

We spoke to Christine Wattie, the brains behind leadership development firm Aroha Leadership, who works with individuals and groups to identify barriers to performance and transform personal and business results.

“Our mission is to develop extraordinary leaders who will transform performance and achieve sustainable results in their personal and business lives,” explains Chris.

Together with her husband Grant, Chris has been in the small business landscape for more than 20 years, with a huge part of that working with leaders on their own development.

Chris says in this time, both she and Grant noticed the leadership development field is not up to the task of developing leaders for the complex challenges they are facing now, let alone the future.

“We see the need for leaders of greater effectiveness, integrity, courage, compassion, competence, character, consciousness and wisdom,” she says.

“We know the world needs these leaders now. We also know that we want to be part of the solution.”

According to Chris, the vision for Aroha Leadership was to raise the bar on developing great leaders.

“Aroha Leadership is designed to integrate the best theory, research and practice and to champion the development of extraordinary leaders,” says Chris.

“Aroha Leadership is informed by our own transformational experience in the field and our work consistently achieves sustainable results at all levels,” she says.

“As Gandhi said, we must ‘be the change you want to see in the world’.”

After running their own successful family business for 20 years, an injury to Grant meant the duo could no longer run the business the way they had planned. This led to Chris wondering what it was she really wanted to do in the business world. After some encouragement from friends and family, she decided to take a big step and go back to study. After selling their family business, Chris and Grant bought a leadership franchise.

The next few years saw the couple move to Australia, where Chris took an opportunity to work with women in leadership. Both Chris and Grant worked with senior leaders around the country and founded the Global Women’s Leadership Summit. After a solid four-year stint across the Tasman, the duo decided it was time to move home to New Zealand and work on their dream in their own country.

“We’ve noticed that so many people lack courage and confidence to do what they really want to do,” says Chris.

“We work with people to connect at a deep level with their best versions of themselves. Then they can find the courage and be inspired to create the future of their dream; to master leadership in their personal and business lives. And to achieve results they’d never thought possible.”

Chris says both her and Grant’s background in business, therapy, coaching and leadership development, combined with a unique mix of real world business experience in corporate and business ownership, has provided them with a unique range of strategic interventions.

“We’ve been there, we know the problems people face and we can help deal with their issues from a wide perspective,” she explains.

“Our diverse backgrounds mean we’ve lived life on all fronts so we know what works and what doesn’t.”

Chris says she hopes Aroha Leadership will provide both her and Grant a platform to reach out to other business leaders looking to fulfil their personal and business objectives. She wants to use her background in the industry to become a true role model for transformational leadership in the business community.

“Our clients are people from all walks of life,” she says. “Executives, royalty, government ministers, indigenous people – anyone looking to break down barriers.”

And this is the mantra behind the business name, Aroha Leadership. Chris says she and Grant chose ‘Aroha’ to honour New Zealand’s bicultural heritage, as well as the word’s holistic meaning, which includes respect, empathy, hospitality, generosity and connection.

“In the wider sense, aroha is reflected in the way people relate to one another,” says Chris.

“In today’s complex business environment where more than 70% of change efforts fail, we need to adopt a transformational and collaborative approach to leadership to get results,” she explains.

“Transformational leadership is essentially and necessarily founded on aroha.”

Chris says the high of her career so far is seeing their children develop and grow into leaders themselves. Their eldest daughter works in HR law, while the other works in communications, and their son is a web developer.

On a professional level, Chris says running a small business successfully over 20 years, then courageously stepping into her ‘sweet spot’ just over a decade ago, has been a real high.

“Working with diversity and senior leaders throughout New Zealand and Australia, helping many individuals and groups work towards a better future, has been really fulfilling on both a personal and professional level,” she explains.

Much like the business landscape itself, Chris says Aroha Leadership is in a massive action stage, rapidly evolving and expanding.

“We coach senior executives, facilitate customised workshops and deliver the Aroha senior leadership programme,” she says. “We also work with our business partners to deliver a range of public and in-company programmes.”

Chris adds, “Our strategies are practical and work in the real world.

“Our personal commitment to the Aroha transformational methodology is essential to the integrity of the process and underpins its success.”

Overcoming my #1 fear

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During my childhood I lived on a small farm on the outskirts of Havelock North, New Zealand, where we spent a great deal of time outdoors.

I would often have my trusty black Labrador, Judy, sitting next to me or ride the old retired racehorse lounged in the back paddock.

Rafters of noisy turkeys gathered everywhere on the property. When one gobbled, they all noisily “sang” in unison as they chased each other around the barnyard.

I always thought this was a beautiful metaphor for corporate life and how people stay small by surrounding themselves with “turkeys.” They refuse to look beyond the horizon because they’re afraid of leaving the safety and security of their “barnyard.”

The following parable from my book The Aroha Process teaches how to quit being a turkey through self-awareness, and strategies to break-through behavioral patterns from the past.

You were born with wings. Why would you prefer to crawl through life? ~Rumi

The Eagle That Thought He Was A Turkey

After finding a large egg in a wheat field, a farmer took it back to his barnyard and gently placed it on a turkey’s nest.

After Oscar hatched from the egg, he did everything the other turkey chicks did. He pecked at the dirt for earthworms and insects. And gobbled happily as he chased around the barnyard with his feathered friends.

Every so often he’d fly a few feet into the air, and perch on a fence to survey his surroundings.

For a long while Oscar was a contented turkey, until one day when he saw a magnificent bird gliding effortlessly above the bluffs behind the farm.

While watching this spectacular example of aerodynamics, he thought, Oh, my goodness! If only I could be that powerful to fly that strong and that high!

“Who’s that?” he gobbled to his friend, Beakman.

“That’s an eagle, the king of the birds who belongs to the sky,” Beakman answered. “But you need to remember that we’re turkeys. We’re not meant to fly that high, so we belong on the ground.”

Even though Oscar periodically saw the eagle flying overhead, he continued to gobble, scratch and peck in the barnyard.

Oscar was destined to live and die a turkey for that’s who he thought he was.

But that’s not how the story ends — in the parable Oscar manages to escape the barnyard and go on a journey of transformation to live an extraordinary life.

My childhood and my parents gave me a great gift, the gift of freedom. This allowed me to explore life, follow my highest calling through asking deep questions that led me to do what I do now as an executive counsellor, corporate strategist and coach.

Today we live in a culture with an epidemic of mental health issues like anxiety, depression and suicide. It’s no wonder given the pace of change. People live in constant anxiety and fear because they can’t cope with the growing pressures.

I believe the antidote is to know who you really are – your authentic self and your highest calling in life. Then you will no longer be driven by fear but rather filled with passion, purpose and fulfilled by living an extraordinary life.

Unfortunately it’s often not until some kind of wake-up call happens – a relationship fails, a health scare, a financial or career difficulty that your worst fears stare you in the face. It’s only then that you discover the way you are living life doesn’t work. You wake up.

On TV there was a story about this gentleman who knocks on his son’s door. Jaime, he says, Wake up! Wakeup!

Jaime answers, I don’t want to get up, Papa. Why not? asks the father. Three reasons, says Jaime. It’s so boring; the kids tease me; and I hate school.

And the father says, Well, I am going to give you three reasons why you must go to school.

First, it’s your duty; you are forty-five years old, and you are the headmaster.

Wake up, wake up!

So many people that I talk to are afraid to live life fully. While some are traumatized by near death experiences, yet more are fearful of “near life experiences” – they have a chronic fear of failure and manifest a learned helplessness that leaves them resigned and cynical and powerless to change anything.

The secret to having a breakthrough in any area of your life is to ask yourself the question – Is my life working the way I want it to? and then live life authentically, on purpose by choosing actions congruent with your highest needs and values.

Then you will be on the way to a fulfilled life contributing your genius to the world.

Let your heart speak: How to engage deeply with your authentic self

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In this article I want to challenge you to listen to the voice of your authentic calling and let your heart speak. The voice of your heart is a small, quiet and often difficult to hear voice. To notice it, you may need to detach from the other louder, critical voice of the mind.

My brother has a chocolate labrador that sits patiently next to us while we are having dinner. His big brown eyes seem to plead with me – please, please give me some food. Our heart is like that, yet the false self, the ego demands all the attention, like a spoilt child.

Cultural anthropologist Angeles Arrien, author of The Four-Fold Way, teaches there are four archetypal ways found in all cultures that point the way to deep engagement and quality of life.

For us to survive and master change as leaders of ourselves and others in our fast-changing volatile ambiguous world, we must become effective at handling change more than ever before.

Traditional cultures supported change with storytelling myths, art, music, ritual, and drama. We can learn from these native cultures that describe four capabilities of our humanity that can improve the quality of our life by helping us become more authentic leaders.

The Warrior: Show up and be present.

When we choose to be present, to become visible, we empower and inspire others by what we model and stand for in the world. We choose to be the cause of everything in our lives and 100 percent responsible (response -able) while understanding our limits and boundaries, and aligning our actions with what we create in our world.

When challenges arise we embrace and respond with full self-expression and presence rather than reacting with fear. The warrior is powerful and has three types of power.

The Power of Presence. We all have the quality of presence. Individuals that tap into their full self-expression and presence are identified as having gravitas, magnetism and charisma.

The Power of Communication. Effective communication is accomplished when there is an alignment of what we say we will do what is expected of us and when we make up for a loss of integrity when we cannot do what we say or is expected.

The Power of Position. Leaders take a stand for the future they are creating. They communicate powerfully where I stand and where I don’t stand, what I stand for, and how I stand up for myself.

The Healer: Pay attention to the heart and meaning.

The healer pays attention to the truth of the heart and authenticity of meaning. They open up to the possibility of giving and receiving love by removing any blocks and obstacles and upsets. This part of our humanity observes and is aware where we are closed rather than open-hearted; where we enable a “yeah but ..” mind rather than listening to a clear heart; and where we are resigned and cynical rather than having a strong-hearted resolve.

Tip: Ask yourself “Where in my life did I stop singing? dancing? listening? sitting in silence?” It is your life story and how you nurture it that allows you to experience the human resource of love, the most powerful healing force on the planet.

The Visionary: Tell the truth without blame or judgment.   

Many Native American cultures believe individuals are “original medicine,” nowhere else duplicated on the planet; therefore, it is important to bring the creative spirit and life dream or purpose to Earth. Since we are “original medicine,” there is no need for comparison and competition. Our life work is to bring firth our gifts, talents, and resources to powerfully meet and overcome challenges.

The visionary brings a unique story, authentically refusing to mask or hide who they are or try to be someone else. Creativity is aligned with authenticity. Being true rather than listening to doubts or social narratves, can’t, shouldn’t, right or wrong, good or bad or I’m not good enough.

Tip: If we can answer “yes” to the questions “I am ok” and that is stronger than “I’m not ok”, then you are now engaging in your creative self-expression.

The Teacher: Be open not attached to positions or outcome.  

Learning and teaching is universal. However true wisdom is flexible and fluid, never positional. The human resource of wisdom is accessed by learning how to trust and how to be comfortable with states of not knowing.

Trust, hope and faith that the world is ok, I am ok, is the context where wisdom appears and brings with it clarity of vision, objectivity, discernment, and detachment. Wisdom appears when there is non-positionality, acceptance and openness to all possible options, or points of view. The Persian poet Hafiz said “To be a hole in the flute that the spirit of god moves through”

Tip: Set aside a few minutes and sit in silence and listen to the quiet voice of your heart. You’ll be surpised by what it tells you.